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every fight we’re invited to,” says Pace. 6. Offer yourself an escape. Use the “buddy system” to ask your spouse or another family member to help stave off potential arguments by facilitating your escape. “If your buddy sees you are already in the middle of an argument, they can use a code word or phrase, such as ‘we left that package out in the car,’” says Pace. “Then you both walk out to the car together.” 4. Set a positive tone. Offering compliments is a great way to set the tone for a family gathering, says Pace. “Always look for the positive.” He adds that humor is also a wonderful tool to keep people at ease. 5. Avoid arguments. Take the high road when the holidays bring people together who are on different sides of the political aisle or have differing opinions on child-rearing. “We don’t have to go to 7. Never discipline someone else’s children. Pace says that although this advice sounds obvious, it’s amazing how many family fights he’s seen when this happens. “If the kids are obnoxious, let the parents take care of it.” 8. Consider a shorter visit. If you are planning to visit a family member and expect the experience to be a little “risky” because of tension or conflict, shorten the visit in advance, Pace advises. “Rather than going to dinner together, say something to indicate that the available time is limited, such as ‘we have to be across town in an hour’ and offer to stop by for a few minutes.” 9. Consider helping someone else. There are more people than ever who could use help during the holiday season. Some of Pace’s family members volunteer at the homeless shelter. He says, “Instead of worrying about just the right tree and the right lights, we choose to find a family that we can help out.” 10. Take a video break with the grandkids. Caldwell suggests grandparents pop a bag of popcorn and snuggle up with the kids for quality holiday time. “It’s the only time of year that TV stations play the wholesome family classics such as Frosty the Snowman and The Grinch almost 24 hours daily.” G Share this article with your friends. Click and connect to more resources instantly where you see this symbol: DECEMBER GRAND
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GRAND Magazine - December 2009
Contents
GRAND Central
GRAND Shout-Outs
No More Holiday Meltdowns
Top 10 Toys of 2009
Cyber-Savvy GRAND
“They Call Me Mom”
GRAND Ride
Resources
GRAND Finale
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - Intro
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - GRAND Magazine - December 2009
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - Cover2
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 3
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 4
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 5
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - Contents
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GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 8
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 9
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 10
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - GRAND Central
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GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 13
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 14
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 15
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 16
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 17
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - GRAND Shout-Outs
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GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 20
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 21
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - No More Holiday Meltdowns
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 23
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - Top 10 Toys of 2009
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GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - Cyber-Savvy GRAND
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GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 30
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 31
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - “They Call Me Mom”
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - 33
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - GRAND Ride
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GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - Resources
GRAND Magazine - December 2009 - GRAND Finale
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