GRAND Magazine - November/December 2010 - (Page 44)
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grandparent rights
Blowing the whistle
What’s the price of trying to
protect a grandchild?
BY SUSAN HOFFMAN
Dear Susan,
My daughter and her husband
are a part of the adult entertainment
industry, including stripping
and nude photography in
magazines and on the Internet.
Had I done nothing and something
happened to my 5-year-old
grandchild Hayley, I wouldn’t be
able to live with myself.
We did what we thought was
Susan
Hoffman is
director of
Advocates for
Grandparent
Grandchild
Connection.
right by calling CPS and then filing
for guardianship, which we soon
learned was unrealistic, because
most of the activities in the adult
entertainment profession are
legal. The CPS investigation found
no just cause, and we dropped
the guardianship and instead filed
a grandparent visitation petition,
which seemed the only way to
remain in our grandchild’s life.
Our daughter used Hayley to
hurt us by keeping her from us.
There are days that it takes all
that I have to keep it together.
44 GRAND NOV DEC 2010
After unsuccessfully trying
to work something out with our
daughter, we decided to go forward
with our case, and the judge
awarded us temporary visitation
of four hours twice monthly.
As our case progresses, things
are coming out, including pertinent
information about Hayley’s
emotional well being based on
a court-appointed therapist’s
evaluation. Her observation
reinforced what we knew: that
Hayley had been anxious and
depressed during the five months
that we had been separated.
The court-appointed therapist’s
evaluation was the deciding
factor in awarding us a permanent
visitation order. Given
the circumstances that this child
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Table of Contents for the Digital Edition of GRAND Magazine - November/December 2010
Grand - Nov/Dec 2010
Table of Contents
Grand View
Grand Treasure Hunt
Grand Central
2010 Holiday Gift Guide
Cover Story
Rx for Trouble
Your Grandkids’ Health
Grandma’s Off Her Rocker
Dr. Marion
Book Review
Comfort in the Kitchen
Grand Giggles
Grandparent Rights
Kinship Care
Pro-tirement
Grand Finale
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