ask dr. gramma karen When grandparents feel guilty Give a GRAND Gift BY KAREN L. RANCOURT I often hear from grandparents wanting advice about how to handle guilt. Grandma Laura cares for her two granddaughters full time. She wanted to babysit less so she could travel and take classes, but when she tried to discuss it with her daughter, her daughter "guilted her" by reminding her that she, Grandma Laura, took on the babysitting to make up for all the times she wasn't available to the daughter when she was growing up. 28 GRAND SEPTEMBER OCTOBER 2017 Continued on next pagehttp://www.grandsub.com https://www.facebook.com/GRANDmagazine/ https://www.twitter.com/grandMmagazine