Condo Media - April 2017 - 20
Homeowner's Corner
Conflict
Resolution
Solve Neighbor
Disputes With
Mediation
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Bruised by a dispute with your
neighbor? The occasional conflict is
a natural byproduct of living very close
to one another. It's possible to get your
disagreement resolved before it escalates and certainly before you end up in
court. You should consider mediation-
a process that can save you money and
aggravation and lead to a more peaceful
community environment.
In mediation, a neutral third party
meets with you and your neighbor,
often in an informal setting, to keep everyone focused on solving the problem.
Mediation works particularly well by
managing expectations; and, generally,
the dispute is resolved within a day.
For example, let's say you're battling
your upstairs neighbor about noise.
She works until 2 a.m. and infuriates
you by walking around her unit in the
wee hours of the morning. Through
mediation, each of you can talk, listen,
and learn about each other. She agrees
to take off her shoes when she gets
home, and you can call when there is a
problem.
A mediator's first task is to understand how and why the conflict escalated. Mediators are trained to search
through highly charged responses to
understand the crux of the problem.
Mediation is about compromise. Be
willing to learn and hear. Be openminded. Mediation tends to fail when
people can't get beyond their emotions.
If you go to court, one of you will
win and one will lose. If you mediate
your differences, both of you will find
consensus-based, creative solutions
to your problems. And that allows for
more harmony in the community.
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Condo Media - April 2017
Table of Contents for the Digital Edition of Condo Media - April 2017
Table of Contents
Condo Media - April 2017 - Intro
Condo Media - April 2017 - BB1
Condo Media - April 2017 - BB2
Condo Media - April 2017 - Cover1
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Condo Media - April 2017 - Table of Contents
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