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'COMPETELEARN-HONOR'
By
Peter C. Scales, contributing writer
A unique approach to mental and emotional training
Every coach needs to establish their own coaching
philosophy. I developed mine for our junior varsity tennis
team years ago, but the feedback I've received is that it's
applicable for all sports.
My philosophy is simple: Compete-Learn-Honor.
That means giving 100% at all times; being an open,
curious, humble learner; bringing credit to yourself,
your team, family, school and the game you're playing. If
you do that, you're a winner, regardless of your win-loss
record. Of course, we want to win, we train to win, and
we compete to win. But we do not measure the success of
our seasons by victories. We measure success by whether
our athletes grow as players and people of character. If
they have, our season was a success, and the CompeteLearn-Honor
yardstick helps us know how we're doing.
I've generated about two dozen mental and emotional
strengthening slogans - listed in the chart on page 43 -
that describe habits we develop within our players. We
teach these in the reverse order of importance - honor,
learn, then compete. Honor is the foundation. It explicitly
requires humility, and humility is necessary for learning.
It's learning that allows you to develop the skills and
mindsets needed to compete with joy and gratitude.
These Compete-Learn-Honor suggestions only work if
players learn to love the game more than how well they
play it. They must learn to surrender their ego to the joy
and power of playing the game humbly, as a learner, and as
a student of the game. If they do these things repeatedly,
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