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Parents and
students tour
the campus of
the University of
Dayton.

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about work philosophy and values.
Another strategy in becoming a better supervisor is to
be intentional in all aspects of the supervisory relationship.
Kimberly Kolk, a residence director at Belmont University
in Nashville, Tennessee, feels that good supervisors
"intentionally ask supervisees one-on-one what they want
or need from them and then work to adapt their style of
supervision while still maintaining their vision of leadership."
That means taking the time to learn about those who are
supervised, both professionally and personally. Areas to
consider include how a supervisee prefers feedback and
recognition. Knowing a supervisee's background, within
limits, provides a greater understanding of their behaviors,
the talents they bring to the team, and what they may need to
develop or advance themselves. Supervisees are yearning for
this type of bond, support, and investment. Supervisors must
be willing to provide a consistent, individualized approach
that invests in team members' potentials. Doing so will
validate genuineness, keep supervisees accountable, assist
with their motivation, and strengthen team dynamics.
Supervising staff of varying levels has become such
a cornerstone of the housing officer experience that the
time must be taken to reflect and get it right. That means
entering into the responsibility with an awareness of self,
fully intentioned, ready to support, and prepared to admit
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016
Contents
Vision
Just In
Calendar
Your ACUHO-I
Transitions
Facilities
Human Resources
Fiscal Resources
Managing Full Circle
Making It Count
Conversations
First Takes
Around Student Affairs
New Members
Snapshot
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - BB2
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Cover2
Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - 1
Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - 2
Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Contents
Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - 4
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - 6
Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - 7
Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Vision
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Just In
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - BI1
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Calendar
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Your ACUHO-I
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Transitions
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Facilities
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - 26
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Human Resources
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Talking Stick - March/April 2016 - Fiscal Resources
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