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cally correct training that doesn't tug
at the hearts and minds of students. At
the end of the day, we don't remember
what people teach us; we remember
how they made us feel.

Titus: I believe that there is a deficiency
of empathy in the American education
system, which has led many students to
have difficulty understanding diversity
through the experience of others. Empathy is essential while practicing dissonance, as it creates a scenario where a
person may disagree with another, but
still feel their humanity.

Watson: The biggest issue facing
students is that the world is still very
much segregated and racialized in
many ways, and we are getting stu-

dents who we believe have had diverse
experiences and are open to others but
actually have not and are not. When
we are working with them, we need
to start from that place versus a place
where they want to have conversations
about inclusion and are open to them.
I feel some students look at diversity
or inclusion as a box they need to
check to say they know enough to not
be directly offensive. To avoid this line
of thought, inclusion and diversity
must be woven into the fabric of all of
our work so that students can't avoid it
by living in a particular hall or changing roommates.
I had the really great experience of
teaching an inclusion dialogue class for
two years. Over the course of the eight
weeks I saw the biggest gains in class

knowledge when I sent students home
at Thanksgiving and encouraged them
to talk to their families about some
of the topics we covered like gender
identity, racism, and others. The following class each time students would
be fascinated about what was said
and how they were challenged, and it
helped them see in real time what we
were talking about in class. 
Camille Perlman is the managing editor of
Talking Stick.
 cperlman@acuho-i.org

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Talking Stick - January/February 2019
Vision
Just In
Calendar
Your ACUHO-I
Transitions
Res Life
Academic Initiatives
Special Focus
Underlying Expectations
Private Matters
Conversations
First Takes
Around Student Affairs
New Members
Snapshot
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - BB1
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Vision
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Just In
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Calendar
Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Your ACUHO-I
Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Transitions
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Res Life
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Academic Initiatives
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Special Focus
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Underlying Expectations
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Private Matters
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Conversations
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - 51
Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - First Takes
Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Around Student Affairs
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Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - New Members
Talking Stick - January/February 2019 - Snapshot
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