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items sound very similar to what I propose as integral to a culture of learning and teaching.
But how do I help him enter my world, to see that I am alone,
unless we seek each other out?
Time and distance can get in the way of natural, ongoing
connection. Our family is spread across the country, literally,
from New York to Los Angeles. My adult children are still driven
by robust careers that keep them busy. My grandchildren range
in age from teens to young adults, with one himself now a
father of an eight-month-old boy, my first great-grandson.
"
"
But how do I help him enter my
world, to see that I am alone, unless
we seek each other out?
I realize they all are busy--emotionally, mentally and physically--developing or managing their careers. At the same time,
the connection with my grandchildren and my adult children is
critical to my mental health. I must let them know that so they
understand my world.
Shifting the paradigm to enter each other's world
What if we, the grandparents, shook up the answer to the rote
question, "How are you?" when we answered the phone. What
if, rather than the expected, "Why haven't you called," "I'm fine,"
etc., we responded with a conversation opener?
"What's the most interesting new thing you learned this
week?" I could ask. The answer might give me new ideas and
expand my mind while also shedding light on my loved one's
world.
Even if your family hasn't grown up in a teaching and learning culture, it is never too late to make a change. Especially
when you "own" the change. When you as a grandparent
change what you are doing, the world around you will change
in response.
31 GRAND
NOVEMBER DECEMBER 2017
Here are two ideas that
can shake up
your family relationship
dynamics and open
the door to deeper
connections.
A long-time social work professional,
grandparenting activist, and passionate
Grandpa, author Jerry Witkovsky offers
fresh approaches to help grandparents
enter their grandchild's world, to leave
values, not just valuables, and create a
living legacy. Over the past year he has
undertaken extensive research and evaluation to support
the transformative effect grandparents can have on families
and communities when they enter their grandchild's world
via a Grandparent Connection School Program. Learn more
about starting a program at your grandchild's school at
www.grandparentsunleashed.com.
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