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Kimberly Young
Help for
Cybersex Addicts
and Their Loved Ones
When Fantasy Turns Into
Obsession
raig is a banker from
Iowa who became
addicted to adult chat
rooms. He explained,
"I spend time in chat
rooms on office time. I made up false
names and genders for myself, pretending to be other people by sending out pictures (of women, I'm male)
and saying they're me, all this accompanied by masturbation whenever
I'm alone in the office (usually after
hours). I wasted hours looking for
cybersex, finding the right cyberlover,
and the right fantasy for the moment.
It's like I need to make the experience last as long as I can before I
climax. Typing used to be great, but
recently I started to phone sex making the sex part real and part fantasy.
I do a lot of work-related research,
but there's almost always one window open on a porn site. Some are
"pay" but most are free. I have a habit
of saving pictures I like which often
leads to megabytes, or GIGABYTES
of wasted drive space that I end up
deleting all at once after a while."
Craig further explained, "I fear
getting caught by my boss. I'm starting to "work" late just for time alone
with the computer, wasting money
on pay sites. I try to restrict myself
from masturbating at home (I'm
married), but I will be right back on
the sex sites once my wife is in the
shower or asleep. The real scary part
for me is that I like cybersex better
than having sex with my wife. Real
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sex just doesn't seem as good and
it is starting to impact my marriage.
Please help me understand why I
find this virtual world so exciting."
Craig is a cybersex addict. Cybersex can be defined as sexual arousal
using computer technology, especially
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by wearing virtual reality equipment or by exchanging messages
with another person via the Internet.
Cybersex comes in many forms, from
online pornography, to adult chat
rooms, webcam sex, wearable stimulators, haptics, and Occulus-style VR
goggles. Cybersex in any form offers
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