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Ali and his wife refer to them as "our angels"
for all they did to help their family start anew.

Reconnecting
Ericksen's story over those many years is
much different. He knew very little of what
transpired after Ali left the United States.
"Things continued to deteriorate in Iran,
and then with the revolution, the letters
stopped going back and forth. I would make
occasional efforts and generally not be able
to find out how he was doing. I was told to
not track down friends because it could be
bad for them. The little pieces of information
that I could put together were that [Ali] had
likely been imprisoned and maybe killed."
After completing his master's degree at
SIT, Ericksen worked for the Foreign Student
Service Council as a driver before landing a
job as a foreign student adviser at the University of Maryland. From there, Ericksen
worked at St. Louis University, Rensselaer

Polytechnic Institute, and California State
University-Fullerton before taking the job at
UCLA. In all that time, Ericksen knew very
little of his friends in Iran. "Every once in a
while, my thoughts would go to Iran, and
the situation there, and my students and Ali.
It's painful to think that there was little that
I could do, and if I did, it could lead them to
more harm."
Ali finished his second master's degree at
SIT in 1998 and emigrated to Canada to work
at the University of British Columbia. Once
in Canada, he began to use the name "Ali" to
avoid endangering his family back in Iran. He
became a member of NAFSA in 2009 and
registered for his first conference one month
before the event was to take place in Los Angeles, California. He was using Conference
Connection to prepare for the conference
when he something caught his eye.
"When I went through the NAFSA site, I
was looking at the contacts there, and I came

across this name, and it sounded so familiar.
And sure enough, Bob's picture was there.
Was this the same Bob? When you see a picture after 30 years, you have your doubts."
Ali had to be sure, so he sent him a message.
"Do you remember picking grapes in my
father's orchard and playing in my family's
yard?"
Ericksen immediately remembered his
friend from Iran, who back then went by a
family nickname, and he was more than surprised to see a message from a friend that he
thought was dead. Ericksen sent a message
to confirm, and the two of them could not
believe they were planning such a remarkable reunion at the conference.
"It was really a miracle to find him after
all of these years," says Ali, "We had our first
reunion after 35 years, and it was just getting
back to the memories." The two sat down
for lunch, and continued talking well into
the late afternoon, skipping a few conference
sessions to share stories of carefree days in
Bojnord and catch up on everything that
had transpired in the past three decades. "It
was such a pleasant time to be with Bob and
talk about those things. Every bit of that past
would give me so much pleasure, especially
for me, being away from my home and my
family for a long time."
"It was magical," says Ericksen. "I know that
I cried, and it was just amazing. Even more
amazing is his struggle to leave Iran. He has
been through a hell of a lot. In his case, it has
been an extraordinary outcome for his life."
Ericksen and Ali have kept in touch ever
since, and they see each other every year at
NAFSA's annual conferences. In 2011, the
conference was held in Vancouver, Canada,
where Ali resides, and the two were able to
recreate an event that happened so many
times in Iran. "I had the chance to visit him
in his home, meet his family, and share a
meal. It is beyond words," says Ericksen.

Looking for More
Connections
After Ericksen was recently contacted to share
his side of the story, he began looking for photos and mini-cassette tapes from his time in
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